Sunday, August 26, 2012

Email correspondence with dad about suffering.

(My posts are in blue, his fuchsia)

 

 

Excerpt from a book I'm reading I thought you would enjoy. (Long but a good read)



I'm really not sure how much to post, but if you are interested I can send you the entire book, do note though that I haven't finished the book yet. I was just reading it earlier and made a mental note to send you a chunk of it.

Easier said than done.

In movies they say it's 5% picture, 20% sound, and 75% editing. I believe that, choosing what NOT to include is important because you know the audience doesn't have all day...

But you don't want to just include what you want to show either because who knows if it'll have the same impact without proper context. I'll do my best here...

Oh and trust me on this. I know that my endorsement has value ONLY if I recommend appropriate things. I truly believe you will at the very least find this interesting.

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The modern philosophical problem of theodicy, which has been
with us since the Enlightenment, is how we can imagine that God
exists given such senseless pain and suffering. For ancient peoples,
however, there was never, or almost never, a question of whether
God (or the gods) actually existed. The question was how to explain
God’s   (or   the   gods’) relationship to people given the state of the
world. Given the fact—which almost every ancient person took as a
fact—that God is both above the world and involved with it, how
can one explain the corollary fact that people suffer?

   Many of the biblical authors were concerned with this question—
even obsessed with it. From Genesis to Revelation, biblical
writers grapple with this issue, discuss it, agonize over it. A very
large portion of the Bible is devoted to dealing with it. If God has
chosen the Jews—or (also? alternatively?) the Christians—to be his
people, why do they experience such horrible suffering? It is true that  
there was nothing in the ancient world quite like the Holocaust.
That required the technological “advances” of modernity: the
ability to transport millions by rail and kill thousands by gas and
incinerate hundreds in specially built crematoria. But there were
slaughters aplenty in the ancient world and wretched suffering of
all kinds caused by all manner of circumstances: military defeat,
cruelty to POW’s, and torture; drought, famine, pestilence, epidemic
birth defects, infant mortality, infanticide; and on and on.

   When these things happened, how did ancient authors explain
them?

 One of their most common explanations—it fills many pages of
the Hebrew Bible—may seem simplistic, repugnant, backward, or
just dead-wrong to many modern people. It is that people suffer
because God wants them to suffer. And why does God want them
to suffer? Because they have disobeyed him and he is punishing
them. The ancient Israelites had a healthy sense of the power of
God, and many of them were convinced that nothing happens in
this world unless God has done it. If God’s people are suffering, it is
because he is angry with them for not behaving in the ways they
should. Suffering comes as a punishment for sin.


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If God is the powerful creator, and if he has chosen
Israel and promised them success and prosperity, how is one to ex-
plain the fact that Israel suffers? Eventually the northern kingdom
was utterly destroyed by a foreign nation. How could that be, if
God had chosen them to be his people? In another 150 years the
southern kingdom was destroyed as well. Why did God not protect
and defend it as he had promised?

   These were questions naturally asked, fervently asked, by
many of the people of Israel. The most resounding answer to the
question came from a group of thinkers known as the prophets. To
a person, the prophets maintained that Israel’s national sufferings
came because it had disobeyed God, and it was suffering as a punishment.
The God of Israel was not only a God of mercy, he was
also a God of wrath, and when the nation sinned, it paid the price.

Introduction to the Prophets

The writings of the prophets are among the most misunderstood
parts of the Bible today, in no small measure because they are commonly
read out of context.Many people today, especially conservative
Christians, read the prophets as if they were crystal-ball
gazers predicting events that are yet to transpire in our own time,
more than two thousand years removed from when the prophets
were actually speaking. This is a completely egocentric approach to
the Bible (it’s all about ME!). But the biblical writers had their own
contexts and, as a result, their own agendas. And those contexts and
agendas are not ours. The prophets were not concerned about us;
they were concerned about themselves and the people of God living
in their own time. It is no wonder that most people who read the
prophets this way (they’ve predicted the conflict in the Middle East!
they foresaw Saddam Hussein! They tell us about Armageddon!)
simply choose to read one or another verse or passage in isolation,
and do not read the prophets themselves in their entirety. When the
prophets are read from beginning to end, it is clear that they are
writing for their own times. They often, in fact, tell us exactly when
they were writing—for example, under what king(s)—so that their
readers can understand the historical situation they were so intent
on addressing.

What makes a prophet? In the Hebrew Bible there are, roughly
speaking, two kinds of prophets. Some prophets—probably   the
majority, historically—delivered “the word of God” orally. That is,
they were spokespersons for God the ones who communicated
(their understanding of) God’s message to his people, to let them
know what God wanted them to do or how God wanted them to
act—in particular, how they needed to change their ways in order
to stand in God’s good favor (see, e.g., 1 Samuel 9; 2 Samuel 12).
Other prophets—these are the ones who are more familiar to us
today—were writing prophets, spokespersons for God whose (oral)
proclamations were also written down, on the ancient equivalent of
paper. The writings of some of the ancient Israelite prophets later
became part of the Bible. In English translations of the Bible they
are divided into the “major” prophets, the well-known figures of
Isaiah, Jeremiah, and Ezekiel, and the “minor” prophets. This differentiation
is not made to suggest that some prophets are more important 
 than others but rather to indicate which writings are
longer (“major”) than others (“minor”). The twelve minor prophets
are somewhat less well known, but many of them deliver powerful
messages:  Hosea, Joel,  Amos, Obadiah, Jonah, Micah, Nahum,
Habbakuk, Zephaniah, Haggai, Zechariah, and Malachi.

 What ties all these prophets together is that they were delivering
God’s message, speaking God’s word, as they understood  it,  to
God’s people. They saw themselves, and (some) others saw them, as
the mouthpieces of God. In particular, they were delivering God’s
message to people in concrete situations, telling them what, in God’s
view, they were doing wrong, what they needed to do right, how
they needed to change, and what would happen if they refused.
This matter of “what would happen if they refused” is the full
extent of the “predictions” made by the prophets. They were not
speaking about what would happen in the long term, thousands of
years after their own day. They were speaking to living people of
their own time and telling them what God wanted them to do and
what he would do to them if they failed to obey.

 As a rule, the prophets believed there were dire consequences for
not following their instructions, given by God. For them God was
sovereign over his people and was bound and determined to see
that they behaved properly. If they did not he would  punish
them—as he had punished them before. He would cause drought,
famine, economic hardship, political setbacks, and military defeat.
Most of all, military defeat. The God who destroyed the Egyptian
armies when he delivered his people out of slavery would destroy
them if they did not behave as his people. For the prophets, then,
the setbacks the people experienced, many of the hardships they
endured, many of the miseries they suffered, came directly from
God, as a punishment for their sins and in an effort to get them to
reform. (As we will see later, the prophets also thought that human
beings themselves were often to blame for the suffering of others, as
the rich and powerful, for example, oppressed the poor and power-
less: it was precisely for such sins that God had determined to
punish the nation.)

   Most of the writing prophets were producing their work around
the time of the two great disasters experienced by ancient Israel: the
destruction of the northern kingdom by the Assyrians in the eighth
century BCE and the destruction of the south by the Babylonians in
the sixth.To explore further the specific burdens of these authors,
here I will simply highlight the message of several of them. Those I
have chosen are representative of the views found in the others, but
they present their messages of sin and punishment in particularly
graphic and memorable terms.

Amos of Tekoa

One of the clearest portrayals of the “prophetic view” of the relationship
of sin and suffering comes in one of the gems of the
Hebrew Bible, the book of Amos.We learn little about the man
Amos himself from the book, and he is not mentioned in any other
book of the Bible. What he tells us is that he was from the southern
part of the land—that is, from the country of Judah—from the
small village of Tekoa in the hills south of Jerusalem (1:1). He twice
mentions that he was a shepherd (1:1; 7:14) and a farmer—one who
tended sycamore trees (7:14). It has often been thought, based on his
occupation, that he was from the Judean lower class; but given the
fact that he was literate and obviously trained rhetorically, he may
well have been a relatively prosperous landowner with flocks of his
own. He was, in any event, no champion of the rich upper classes;
on the contrary, much of his book is directed against those who had
acquired wealth at the expense of the poor. It was because of the
abuses of the well-to-do, he believed, that judgment was soon to
come to Israel. It was against the north in particular that Amos
spoke his prophecies, traveling up from his southern clime to
announce God’s judgment on the kingdom.

   The preface to Amos’s book (1:1) indicates that his prophetic
ministry was undertaken when Uzziah was king of the northern
kingdom (783–742 BCE) and Jeroboam was king of the south
(786–746 BCE). This was a relatively calm and peaceful time in the
life of the divided kingdom. Neither the large foreign empire to the
south—Egypt—nor the larger empire to the northeast—Assyria—
was an immediate threat to the tranquility of the peoples living in
the “promised land.” But that was soon to change. Amos predicted
that God would raise up a kingdom to oppose his people because
they had violated his will and broken his covenant. In the future, he
contended, lay military defeat and disaster. As it turned out, he was
right.Some twenty years after Uzziah’s peaceful reign, Assyria flexed
its muscles and invaded, destroying the northern kingdom
and dispersing its people. At the time of Amos’s proclamation,
however, his dire predictions may well have seemed unnecessarily
bleak, as life was relatively good for those living in the land, especially
for those who had prospered during the time of peace.

   Amos begins his prophecies on a note that will characterize his
entire book, uttering fearful predictions of destruction for Israel’s
neighbors, destruction to be brought by God as a punishment for their
sins.18 Thus, at the outset, comes a prophecy against the capital city of
Syria, Damascus, for its destruction of the smaller town of Gilead:


Thus says the Lord: 
   For three transgressions of  
             Damascus,         
      and for four, I will not revoke  
             the punishment;19 

   because they have threshed Gilead  
      with threshing sledges of iron. 
   So I will send a fire on the house  
             of Hazael, . . . 
   I will break the gate bars of  
             Damascus,         
      and cut off the inhabitants from  
             the Valley of Aven. (Amos 1:3–4) 

Military defeat (a fire and broken gates) awaits the citizens of
Damascus in exchange for their military exploits. So too with the
Philistine city-state Gaza:

Thus says the Lord: 
   For three transgressions of Gaza,  
      and for four, I will not revoke  
             the punishment; 
because they carried into exile  
             entire communities,          
       to hand them over to Edom. 
   So I will send a fire on the wall of  
             Gaza,      
       fire that shall devour its  
             strongholds. 
   I will cut off the inhabitants from  
             Ashdod. (Amos 1:6–8) 

And so it goes. In chapters 1–2 Amos predicts military defeat and
violence in similar terms against seven of Israel’s neighbors. And
one can just imagine his readers dwelling in Israel nodding their
heads in agreement. That’s right! It’s exactly what our wicked
neighbors deserve: God will judge them in the end!


   But then Amos turns the pointing finger on the people of Israel
themselves, and in a rhetorical climax indicates that they too will be
destroyed, with particular vengeance, by the God they thought was
on their side:

Thus says the Lord: 
   For three transgressions of Israel, 
       and for four, I will not revoke  
             the punishment;          
       because they sell the righteous for  
             silver,    
       and the needy for a pair of  
             sandals— 
   they who trample the head of the  
             poor into the dust of the  
             earth,     
       and push the afflicted out of the  
             way; 
father and son go in to the same  
             girl,     
       so that my holy name is  
             profaned. . . .
   So, I will press you down in your  
             place, 
       just as a cart presses down  
       when it is full of sheaves.  
   Flight shall perish from the swift, 
       and the strong shall not retain  
             their strength, 
       nor shall the mighty save their  
             lives;     
   those who handle the bow shall  
             not stand,       
       and those who are swift of foot  
             shall not save themselves,  
       nor shall those who ride horses  
             save their lives;       
   and those who are stout of heart  
             among the mighty            
       shall flee away naked in that  
             day,      
                              
   says the Lord. (Amos 2:6–16) 

      The sins of God’s own people, Israel, will lead to military defeat.
These sins are both social and what we might call religious. Socially,
the people have oppressed the poor and needy; and they have broken
the law God has given in flagrant ways (father and son having sex
with the same woman; Leviticus 18:15, 20:12). As Amos goes on to
indicate, these sins are particularly acute because Israel was to be
God’s chosen people; therefore, their punishment will be all the more
extreme: “You only have I known of all the families of the earth;
therefore I will punish you for all your iniquities” (3:1). Moreover, the
nature of this punishment is spelled out in clear terms: “An adversary
shall surround the land and strip you of your defense; and your
strongholds shall be plundered” (3:11). For Amos, this future military
disaster and political nightmare is not simply an unfortunate outcome
of human history: it is the plan of God, as God himself has decreed the
future catastrophe. In a particularly memorable passage Amos presses
home the point by stringing together a number of rhetorical
questions, all of which are to be answered with a resounding “no!”

 Do two walk together  
       unless they have made an  
             appointment? 

   Does a lion roar in the forest,  
       when it has no prey? 

   Does a young lion cry out from  
             its den,     
       if it has caught nothing? 

   Does a bird fall into a snare on the  
             earth,      
       when there is no trap for it? 

   Does a snare spring up from the  
             ground,       
       when it has taken nothing? 

   Is a trumpet blown in a city,  
       and the people are not afraid? 

   Does disaster befall a city,  
       unless the Lord has done it? (Amos 3:3–6) 

 The reader is compelled by the rhetoric of the passage to answer
no to the final question as well. The only reason disaster comes is
that the Lord himself brings it. This may sound severe, but it is
consistent, according to Amos, with the way God has historically
dealt with his people. In another powerful passage Amos claims
that God has sent all sorts of natural disasters on his people in order
to compel them to return to him and his ways. But they never
heeded his voice and never returned. And so God will subject them
to a final judgment. Where did the famine, drought, blight, pestilence,
and destruction that have plagued Israel come from? According to
 Amos, they came from God as a punishment for sin and
an incentive for repentance

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 One of Amos’s subsidiary messages is that it is only by proper
behavior—not by cultic observation—that the people of Israel can
be restored to a right standing before God. And so he speaks a word
from the Lord:

   I hate, I despise your festivals, 
       and I take no delight in your  
             solemn assemblies. 
   Even though you offer to me your  
             burnt offerings and grain  
             offerings, 
       I will not accept them; . . . 
   Take away from me the noise of  
             your songs; 
       I will not listen to the melody  
             of your harps. 
 But let justice roll down like  
             waters, 
      and righteousness like an  
             ever-flowing stream. (Amos 5:21–24) 

Those who think they can be right with God by following the
proper dictates for worship (God himself had commanded them to
observe the festivals and to bring him offerings) without also working
for social justice and fairness are deceived. The people of Israel
have not followed God’s call for right living. Their plights came as
a result. Sin brings the wrath of God, which will eventually lead to
the destruction of the people: “all the sinners of my people shall die
by the sword” (9:10).

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Page after page of the prophets’ writings are filled with dire warnings about
how God will inflict pain and suffering on his people for disobedience,
whether through famine, drought, pestilence, economic hardship,
and political upheavals, or, most commonly, through resounding
military defeat. God brings disasters of all kinds, both
to punish his people for their sin and to urge them to return to him.
If they return, the pain will cease; if they don’t, it will get worse.

   Rather than rehearse all the writings of all the prophets, here I
shall briefly discuss the words of two of the most famous, Isaiah
and Jeremiah, both of Jerusalem, so-called major prophets whose
powerful rhetoric continues to make them moving reading two and
a half millennia later. It is important to remember, however, that
they, and all the prophets, were speaking to the people of their own
day
, instructing them in the word of the Lord, urging them to
return to God, and reciting the dire fate awaiting them should they
fail to do so. Both of these prophets had long ministries of about
forty years; both of them prophesied not against the northern kingdom
but against the south. But their essential message did not differ
significantly from that of their colleagues to the north. God’s people
had departed from his ways and fearful suffering was in
store for them as a result. God, for them, was a God who punishes.
  
Consider the powerful lament of Isaiah’s opening chapter:

Ah, sinful nation, 
      people laden with iniquity, 
   offspring who do evil, 
      children who deal corruptly, 
   who have forsaken the Lord, 
       who have despised the Holy  
             One of Israel, 
       who are utterly estranged! 
   Why do you seek further beatings, 
      Why do you continue to rebel? . . . 
 Your country lies desolate, 
      your cities are burned with fire; 
   in your very presence 
      aliens devour your land; 
      it is desolate, as overthrown by  
            foreigners. . . 
   If the Lord of hosts 
      had not left us a few survivors, 
   we would have been like Sodom, 
      and become like Gomorrah. (Isa. 1:4–9) 

One can hardly read this without thinking of that fierce cartoon
with   the   caption   “Beatings   will   continue   until   morale   improves.”
That indeed is Isaiah’s message, in words reminiscent of Hosea:

   How the faithful city [i.e., Jerusalem] 
      has become a whore! 
      She that was full of justice, 
   righteousness lodged in her— 
      but now murderers! . . . 
   Your princes are rebels 
      and companions of thieves. 
   Everyone loves a bribe 
      and runs after gifts. 
   They do not defend the orphan, 
      and the widow’s cause does not  
            come before them. 
   Therefore says the Sovereign, the  
            Lord of hosts, the Mighty  
            One of Israel: 
   Ah, I will pour out my wrath on  
            my enemies, 
      and avenge myself on my foes! 
   I will turn my hand against you. (Isa. 1:21–25) 


The people of God have now become the enemy of God. And he
will act accordingly:

   Instead of perfume there will be a
             stench;
      and instead of sash, a rope. . .
      instead of beauty, shame. 
   Your men shall fall by the sword 
      and your warrior in battle. 
   And her gates shall lament and  
             mourn; 
       ravaged, she shall sit upon the  
             ground. (Isa. 3:24–26) 

   In one of the most famous passages of the book, Isaiah recounts a
vision he has had of God himself, “sitting on a throne, high and
lofty” above the Temple (6:1–2). The prophet is commissioned by
God to proclaim his message, a message that the people will reject.
When he asks the Lord how long he is to make this proclamation,
he receives bad news —it is until the whole land is destroyed: “Until
cities lie waste without inhabitant and houses without people, and
the land is utterly desolate; until the Lord sends everyone far away
and vast is the emptiness in the midst of the land” (6:11–12). And
what has Judah done that makes it worthy of such judgment? They
have robbed the poor, not cared for the needy, not tended to the
widows and the orphans in distress (10:2–3). God will therefore
send another great power against them for destruction.

   And yet, as we saw with Amos, Isaiah anticipates that God’s
wrath will not burn forever. On the contrary, he will save a
remnant of his people and start again:

   On that day the remnant of Israel and the survivors of the
   house of Jacob will no more lean on the one who struck them,
   but will lean on the Lord, the Holy One of Israel, in truth. A
   remnant will return, the remnant of Jacob, to the mighty
   God. . . . For in a very little while my indignation will come to
   an end, and my anger will be directed to their [i.e., the ene-
   my’s] destruction. . . . On that day his burden will be removed
   from your shoulder, and his yoke will be destroyed from your
   neck. (Isa. 10:20–27)

   More than a century later, a similar message was proclaimed by
Jeremiah, another prophet of Judah who anticipated that God
would destroy the nation for its misdeeds. A foreign power would
march against it and bring terrible destruction:

   I am going to bring upon you 
      a nation from far away,  
             O house of Israel, 
                            says the Lord. 
   It is an enduring nation, 
      it is an ancient nation, 
   a nation whose language you do  
             not know, 
      nor can you understand what  
             they say. . . . 
   They shall eat up your harvest and  
             your food; 
      they shall eat up your sons and  
             your daughters; 
   they shall eat up your flocks  
             and your herds; 
      they shall eat up your vines and  
             your fig trees; 
   they shall destroy with the sword 
      your fortified cities in which  
             you trust. (Jeremiah 5:15–17)  

Jeremiah was quite explicit: the holy city, Jerusalem, would be
destroyed in the coming onslaught. “I will make Jerusalem a heap
of ruins, a lair of jackals; and I will make the towns of Judah a des-
olation without inhabitant” (9:11).25 The resultant suffering for the
inhabitants of the land would not be pleasant:“They shall die of deadly
diseases. They shall not be lamented nor shall they be
buried; they shall become like dung on the surface of the ground.
They shall perish by the sword and by famine, and their dead
bodies shall become food for the birds of the air and for the wild
animals of the earth” (16:4). The siege of Jerusalem by the foreign
armies would lead to unspeakable horrors, as starvation mounted
in the city and people resorted to the worst forms of cannibalism
simply to survive: “I will make this city a horror, a thing to be hissed
at; everyone who passes by it will be horrified and will hiss because
of all its disasters. And I will make them eat the flesh of their sons
and the flesh of their daughters, and all shall eat the flesh of their
neighbors in the siege, and in the distress with which their enemies
and those who seek their life afflict them” (19:8–9).

   Like his prophetic predecessors, Jeremiah held out hope as well.
If the people would simply return to God, their suffering could be
averted: “Therefore thus says the Lord: If you turn back, I will take
you back and you shall stand before me. . . . And I will make you to
this people a fortified wall of bronze; they will fight against you,
but they shall not prevail over you, for I am with you to save you
and deliver you, says the Lord. I will deliver you out of the hand of
the wicked, and redeem you from the grasp of the ruthless” (15:19–
21).

   The logic of this hope is clear. Suffering comes from God. If his
people will simply return to him, the suffering will end. But if they
refuse, it will intensify until there is a final destruction. Suffering in
this view is not simply an unfortunate set of circumstances driven
by political, economic, social, or military realities. It is what comes
to those who disobey God; it comes as a punishment for sin.


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Ok so as you've probably noticed I'm now less just sending little bits, and more just painstakingly copying over most of the book.

A bit of commentary though. Isn't it funny how the crimes God absolutely hated most were Greed, and putting praising him above being a decent person?

It seems all the talking heads in this country want to point the finger at others, when greed is what pisses god off the most. Next is just flat out not being a good person, and thinking worshipping God harder or more publicly will make up for it.

So anyway I should post the conclusions since we've come all this way. If you like all you've read though I'd be happy to send you a copy of the book, and a few others I have by the same author.


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An Initial Assessment

What are we to make of the prophetic view of suffering? It is not
simply the view of several lone voices in remote portions of Scripture,
but rather the view attested on page after page by all the
prophets of the Hebrew Bible, major prophets and minor prophets
alike. Moreover, as we will see in the next chapter, the influence of
this view extended well beyond the writings of the prophets. It is
precisely this view that guides the chronologies of what happened
in the nation of Israel in historical books such as Joshua, Judges,
1 and 2 Samuel, and 1 and 2 Kings. It is a view found in many of
the Psalms. It is comparable in many ways to the view found in
wisdom literature such as the book of Proverbs. This is a view that
permeates the Bible, especially the Hebrew Scriptures. Why do
people suffer? In part, it is because God makes them suffer. It is not
that he merely causes a little discomfort now and then to remind
people that they need to pay more attention to him. He brings
famine, drought, pestilence, war, and destruction. Why do God’s
people starve? Why do they incur dreadful and fatal diseases? Why
are young men maimed and killed in battle? Why are entire cities
laid under siege, enslaved, destroyed? Why are pregnant women
ripped open and children dashed against rocks? To some extent, at
least, it is God who does it. He is punishing his people when they
have gone astray.

I should stress that the prophets themselves never state this as a
universal principle, as a way of explaining  every  instance of suffer -
ing. The prophets, that is, were speaking  only  to their contemporaries
about their specific sufferings. Even so, there is no escaping
the gruesome realities of this view. God sometimes visits judgment
on his own people—especially since they are his own people— because
they have abandoned him and his ways.

What can we say about such a view? On the positive side, this
view takes God and his interactions with the world seriously. The
laws that his people broke, after all, were laws meant to preserve
the welfare of society. They were laws designed to ensure that the
poor were not oppressed, that the needy were not overlooked, that
the weak were not exploited. These were laws as well that dictated
that God be worshiped and served—God alone, not other gods of
other peoples. The prophets taught that adherence to God’s will
would bring divine favor whereas disobedience would lead to hard-
ship—and surely obedience would be better for everyone involved,
especially the poor, needy, and weak. The prophets, in short, were
concerned about issues of real life—poverty, homelessness, injus -
tice, oppression, the uneven distribution of wealth, the apathetic
attitudes of those who have it good toward those who are poor,
helpless, and outcast. On all of these points I resonate deeply with
the prophets and their concerns.

At the same time, there are obvious problems with their point of
view, especially if it is generalized into some kind of universal
principle, as some people have tried to do over the ages. Do we really
want to say that God brings starvation as a punishment for sin? Is
God at fault for the famines in Ethiopia? Does God create military
conflict? Is he to blame for what happened in Bosnia? Does God
bring disease and epidemics? Was he the one who caused the 1918
influenza epidemic that killed thirty million people worldwide? Is
he killing seven thousand people a day with malaria? Has he
created the AIDS crisis?

I don’t think so. Even if one wants to limit the prophetic view to
the “chosen people,” the people of Israel, what are we to say? That
the political and military problems in the Middle East are God’s
way of trying to get Israel to return to him? That he is willing to
sacrifice the lives of women and children in suicide bombings to get
his point across? Even if we limit ourselves to ancient Israel, do we
really want to say that innocent people starved to death (starvation
does not hit just the guilty, after all) as a divine punishment for the
sins of the nation? That the brutal oppression of the Assyrians and
then the Babylonians was really God’s doing, that he urged the
soldiers on as they ripped open pregnant women and dashed little
children against the rocks?

The problem with this view is not only that it is scandalous and
outrageous, but also that it creates both false security and false guilt.
If punishment comes because of sin, and I’m not suffering one bit,
thank you very much, does that make me righteous? More righteous
than my next door neighbor who lost his job, or whose child
was killed in an accident, or whose wife was brutally raped and
murdered? On the other hand, if I am undergoing intense suffering,
is it really because God is punishing me? Am I really to blame
when my child is born with a defect? when the economy takes a
nosedive and I can no longer afford to put food on the table? when
I get cancer?

Surely there must be other explanations for the pain and misery
in the world. And as it turns out, there are other explanations—lots
of them—even within the Bible itself. Before examining these,
however, we should see how the prophetic view of suffering affected
writers who were not prophets but whose books also eventually
came to be seen as part of Scripture.



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I'll end this here...
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That is the lead up to the next chapter.

And I should point out I skipped a long introduction, and a lot of this chapter, basically the whole first half, and bits of the middle just for pacing.

Anyway hope you enjoyed and if you want to read more just ask. 
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 Thank you for sharing. What's the title?

All the Best, 

Shelton
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 I'll just send the whole book. You can use Foxit reader to read it.

http://www.foxitsoftware.com/Secure_PDF_Reader/

Just press "Free Foxit reader Download"

I've been using it for years. It's really better than any other PDF reader out there, but I guess if you have Adobe that works too...

And yes I do have the other books, (Jesus Interrupted, Misquoting Jesus) Although I haven't read them yet.

The guy is a Biblical Scholar of the highest regard.

I'll go ahead and send the other books while I'm at it.   
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Hi Cory,

Thank you, but
I would much rather read my Bible than read someone talking about their opinion of it, from a strictly critical vantage point. Most, if not all problems in our society, particularly in the US and the modern world have stemmed from sin and the removal of Biblical values and importance of faith in Christ, Much of this critical thinking started at the university level, where "scholars and professors" injected their abstract thinking into what they truly know nothing about.

From a secular level one cannot understand the supernatural. The carnal mind is enmity with God.

That which is born of the flesh is flesh.

The book of John is incredible. I highly recommend it...:)


Love Dad

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 I'm not sure how to respond to this.

Denial is a hell of a drug I guess. People get dumber as they learn facts, because all the facts are wrong?

I mean, you've already read the bible, you know what it says. What's important is why it says it.

There are problems that it seems you're just ignoring. If you're fine with that, then what can I do? I can't force you to be curious or to want to learn.

I don't accept that there even IS a supernatural level to understand. I've seen literally no evidence. None.

Oh well. That's all I can really say. If you don't want to learn because you think people who have devoted their whole life to this stuff don't know anything...

What can I even say?

I'm sure you can't name ANY other field in which experts know less than casual dabblers...

I wish I could write more but I'm actually very busy I just took a break to write back. Not trying to argue, I just hate how dismissive you can be. It's frustrating. 
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 Cory,

I must compliment you and say that you have put quite a bit of time, effort and creativity in your writing. I give you credit for exercising skill and determination to share your views.

I must remind you, (not that I need to) that I am not your project and you are not mine. I am going to choose to take part in life and not sit on the sideline and take shots at the participants.

I love a very real God and a very real Saviour that came to seek those that want to accept him.

God does not need defending.

What one say or believes does not threaten God.


All the Best,

Shelton
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 That's one of three options.

Either you are right, and me (and everyone else) is wrong.

Or I am right and you (and everyone else) is wrong.

Or we and a whole lot of other people, are wrong, and some other group like the Hindu's or American Indian's are right.

Or the fourth option, we are ALL wrong and the truth is something no one has ever even thought of.

It's funny, you are an atheist too. To all but one God. We both think that the Muslims, Hindus, Jews, Buddhists, Mormons, Scientologists, Greeks, Romans, Norse, Pagans, Satanists, Various other small cults, various African religions... and others are less than true, but each of those, and a WHOLE lot more have believers that are just as sure they're correct as anyone you, and I say me with the addendum that, I do not consider myself a Gnostic, as I guess you do. You seem to be unable to accept the possibility that you could be wrong. Me on the other hand, I have settled on what I find to be the most accurate answer.

I'm just speaking here, not trying to argue. I don't see how you can even disagree with anything I've said here.

Am I correct in saying that you do not accept that your beliefs could be wrong in any way? That would make you a Gnostic Christian. You are a Christian that claims to know he's correct.

I call myself an Agnostic Atheist. That means I don't think that a single God exists, but I can't claim certainty. It's impossible to disprove a negative, because not being able to find it isn't good enough.



As for your jab, I'm not sitting on the sidelines because I want to be. And I don't take "pot shots".

This is intellectual discussion, metaphors can only go so far. The greatest argument in the world will do nothing against say, a prejudiced mind. I know that it's a pointless endeavor.

You don't think I know that your mind isn't, and has NEVER been open to me or my ideas? I know I'm dismissed immediately. Often angrily. Passionately.


I know my stuff though, and I actually have respect for knowledge and intellectual honesty. I respect critical thinking, I respect formal debate, I respect logic. I avoid circular reasoning, I avoid whenever possible logical fallacies, I don't always prefer the answer I want to hear. And I, above all else honor truth. I have said it before, I don't want to believe false truths, I want actual truth.

If I am some sort of crusader, truth is the flag I fight for.


Ok that was a bit too sappy. I have music on and it made me fade towards the epic. Orchestra's will do that.

I'll end this here.

Friday, June 22, 2012

So I just had a bit of a dialog with my dad.

To say it'll be a lengthy read is an understatement, but I think it's worth posting.

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My first post. 


So after I wrote the last letter I clicked around and found an interesting article that I'll post in a sec.

It got me to thinking about various things. Like bias and all that stuff.

Bias is everywhere, especially in this modern world. Market research and propaganda and blatant lies and scare tactics are everywhere. I've seen it myself.

Just think about this. There's an evil dictator, he is just taking women and if people fight back they're killed. Think someone like Fidel Castro, if he fancied your wife, he would just send his men and take her. All the people in the whole kingdom or whatever, they all get together to overthrow this guy. They lose.

200 years later children are taught of the evil mob that tried to overthrow their dictators great great great grandfather. The greedy mob wanted more than the generous dictator could possibly offer and he bravely fought them off.

It's said that history is written by the victor. The facts don't always have to get in the way when there's no one left to correct you.

So things get cleaned up, white washed, sterilized. Things start looking more black and white.

Anyway, I think this is happening today, right in front of our eyes. The tyrant has gotten so powerful that he doesn't need 200 years to turn the heroic rebels into an angry horde. Not that I'm saying there's any one tyrant. I'm speaking in metaphors.

So basically you turn on the news and hear the news. But it's not that simple anymore.

Ever since Kennedy was killed things started changing. The news became more than just what happened. It became captivating. Then people with money went and offered some money to the news guys to say what they wanted them to say. So they start with a few positive spins here, and negative spins here.

Then things started getting political.

Now we're at a point where FOX News is totally 100% Right wing conservative, unquestionably. MSNBC tends to skew a bit to the left, and a bit more liberal, but not even close to as extreme as FOX is to the right. Then there's like, CNN which seems to be owned by the banks and is arguably just as bad as the others.

Here's a chart...

http://corporatemediaexposed.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/media_concentration.png

This leaves out the NBC chunk of the pie.

Basically NBC, CBS, ABC, CNN which is owned by AOL/Time Warner now, and FOX news are all untrustworthy. They have what's called corporate interests. They serve their rich owners. Now you can watch these guys but take everything they say VERY carefully.

For example. the thing that got me into this rant.

Obamacare.

Many people hated it before they even knew what it was. Because insurance companies hated it, and the companies that gave us our news hated it.

What is it, well here it is, put simply.

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What people call "Obamacare" is actually the Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act. However, people were calling it "Obamacare" before everyone even hammered out what it would be. It's a term mostly used by people who don't like the PPaACA, and it's become popularized in part because PPaACA is a really long and awkward name, even when you turn it into an acronym like that.
Anyway, the PPaACA made a bunch of new rules regarding health care, with the purpose of making health care more affordable for everyone. Opponents of the PPaACA, on the other hand, feel that the rules it makes take away too many freedoms and force people (both individuals and businesses) to do things they shouldn't have to.
So what does it do? Well, here is everything, in the order of when it goes into effect (because some of it happens later than other parts of it):
Already in effect:
  • It allows the Food and Drug Administration to approve more generic drugs (making for more competition in the market to drive down prices)
  • It increases the rebates on drugs people get through Medicare (so drugs cost less)
  • It establishes a non-profit group, that the government doesn't directly control, to study different kinds of treatments to see what works better and is the best use of money.
  • It makes chain restaurants like McDonalds display how many calories are in all of their foods, so people can have an easier time making choices to eat healthy.
  • It makes a "high-risk pool" for people with pre-existing conditions. Basically, this is a way to slowly ease into getting rid of "pre-existing conditions" altogether. For now, people who already have health issues that would be considered "pre-existing conditions" can still get insurance, but at different rates than people without them.
  • It renews some old policies, and calls for the appointment of various positions.
  • It creates a new 10% tax on indoor tanning booths.
  • It says that health insurance companies can no longer tell customers that they won't get any more coverage because they have hit a "lifetime limit". Basically, if someone has paid for life insurance, that company can't tell that person that he's used that insurance too much throughout his life so they won't cover him any more. They can't do this for lifetime spending, and they're limited in how much they can do this for yearly spending.
  • Kids can continue to be covered by their parents' health insurance until they're 26.
  • No more "pre-existing conditions" for kids under the age of 19.
  • Insurers have less ability to change the amount customers have to pay for their plans.
  • People in a "Medicare Gap" get a rebate to make up for the extra money they would otherwise have to spend.
  • Insurers can't just drop customers once they get sick.
  • Insurers have to tell customers what they're spending money on. (Instead of just "administrative fee", they have to be more specific).
  • Insurers need to have an appeals process for when they turn down a claim, so customers have some manner of recourse other than a lawsuit when they're turned down.
  • New ways to stop fraud are created.
  • Medicare extends to smaller hospitals.
  • Medicare patients with chronic illnesses must be monitored more thoroughly.
  • Reduces the costs for some companies that handle benefits for the elderly.
  • A new website is made to give people insurance and health information.
  • A credit program is made that will make it easier for business to invest in new ways to treat illness.
  • A limit is placed on just how much of a percentage of the money an insurer makes can be profit, to make sure they're not price-gouging customers.
  • A limit is placed on what type of insurance accounts can be used to pay for over-the-counter drugs without a prescription. Basically, your insurer isn't paying for the Aspirin you bought for that hangover.
  • Employers need to list the benefits they provided to employees on their tax forms.
8/1/2012
  • Any health plans sold after this date must provide preventative care (mammograms, colonoscopies, etc.) without requiring any sort of co-pay or charge.
1/1/2013
  • If you make over $200,000 a year, your taxes go up a tiny bit (0.9%)
1/1/2014
This is when a lot of the really big changes happen.
  • No more "pre-existing conditions". At all. People will be charged the same regardless of their medical history.
  • If you can afford insurance but do not get it, you will be charged a fee. This is the "mandate" that people are talking about. Basically, it's a trade-off for the "pre-existing conditions" bit, saying that since insurers now have to cover you regardless of what you have, you can't just wait to buy insurance until you get sick. Otherwise no one would buy insurance until they needed it. You can opt not to get insurance, but you'll have to pay the fee instead, unless of course you're not buying insurance because you just can't afford it.
  • Insurer's now can't do annual spending caps. Their customers can get as much health care in a given year as they need.
  • Make it so more poor people can get Medicare by making the low-income cut-off higher.
  • Small businesses get some tax credits for two years.
  • Businesses with over 50 employees must offer health insurance to full-time employees, or pay a penalty.
  • Limits how high of an annual deductible insurers can charge customers.
  • Cut some Medicare spending
  • Place a $2500 limit on tax-free spending on FSAs (accounts for medical spending). Basically, people using these accounts now have to pay taxes on any money over $2500 they put into them.
  • Establish health insurance exchanges and rebates for the lower-class, basically making it so poor people can get some medical coverage.
  • Congress and Congressional staff will only be offered the same insurance offered to people in the insurance exchanges, rather than Federal Insurance. Basically, we won't be footing their health care bills any more than any other American citizen.
  • A new tax on pharmaceutical companies.
  • A new tax on the purchase of medical devices.
  • A new tax on insurance companies based on their market share. Basically, the more of the market they control, the more they'll get taxed.
  • The amount you can deduct from your taxes for medical expenses increases.
1/1/2015
  • Doctors' pay will be determined by the quality of their care, not how many people they treat.
1/1/2017
  • If any state can come up with their own plan, one which gives citizens the same level of care at the same price as the PPaACA, they can ask the Secretary of Health and Human Resources for permission to do their plan instead of the PPaACA. So if they can get the same results without, say, the mandate, they can be allowed to do so. Vermont, for example, has expressed a desire to just go straight to single-payer (in simple terms, everyone is covered, and medical expenses are paid by taxpayers).
2018
  • All health care plans must now cover preventative care (not just the new ones).
  • A new tax on "Cadillac" health care plans (more expensive plans for rich people who want fancier coverage).
2020
  • The elimination of the "Medicare gap"
.
Aaaaand that's it right there.
The biggest thing opponents of the bill have against it is the mandate. They claim that it forces people to buy insurance, and forcing people to buy something is unconstitutional. Personally, I take the opposite view, as it's not telling people to buy a specific thing, just to have a specific type of thing, just like a part of the money we pay in taxes pays for the police and firemen who protect us, this would have us paying to ensure doctors can treat us for illness and injury.
Plus, as previously mentioned, it's necessary if you're doing away with "pre-existing conditions" because otherwise no one would get insurance until they needed to use it, which defeats the purpose of insurance.

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Here it is put another way.

Bob: Hi, insurance company. I'd like to buy some health insurance.
Insurance company: No. You had cancer when you were 3 years old, and the cancer could come back. We're not selling you health insurance.
Bob: It's not my fault I got cancer when I was three! Besides, that was years ago!
Insurance company: If we sell insurance to you, we'll probably lose money, and we're not doing it.
Bob: But I need insurance more than anyone! My cancer might come back!
Insurance company: We don't care. We're not selling you insurance.
Obama: Hey, that's totally not fair. Bob is right, he does need insurance! Sell Bob some insurance.
Insurance company: If we have to, I guess.
Mary: This is cool. Obama said the insurance company has to sell insurance to anyone who needs it.
Sam: Hey, I have an idea. I'm going to stop paying for health insurance. If I get sick, I can always go buy some insurance then. The insurance company won't be able to say no, because Obama's told them they have to sell it to anyone who needs it!
Dave: that's a great idea! I'm not paying for health insurance either, at least not until I get sick.
Insurance company: Hey! If everyone stops paying for insurance, we'll go bankrupt!
Obama: Oh come on Sam and Dave, that's not fair either.
Dave: I don't care. It saves me money.
Obama: Oh for god's sake. Sam, Dave, you have to keep paying for health insurance, and not wait until you're sick. You too, Mary and Bob.
Mary: But I'm broke! I can't buy insurance! I just don't have any money.
Obama: Mary, show me your piggy bank. Oh, wow, you really are broke. Ok, tell you what. You still have to buy insurance, but I'll help you pay 95% of the cost.
Mary: thank you.
Obama: I need an aspirin.
Insurance company: We're not paying for that aspirin.


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I can't find a single bit of that I disagree with. But the rich people don't like it. So they convince everyone that it is just the worst thing in the world. And it works.
So yeah, be careful. There's a lot of people out there trying to put things in our heads. And we tend to like to surround ourselves with like-minded individuals.
This can lead to very horrible things. the least of which being wrong, and having your wrong beliefs basically verified and "confirmed" as true through other methods. 


I try very hard to make sure I believe as many true things as possible. I do worry that I have strong opinions. When I see people that believe strongly things that I disbelieve strongly, instead of just thinking they're idiots, I pause and think. Then usually i decide that, yes I am right and they are wrong.

How do I do this? Lots of ways. I usually use logic, and my handy list of fallacies. I can usually look at someone I disagree with's beliefs and go over it bit by bit and diagnose the problem. I'll say "oh well here's his source of information, a bad study that was later thrown out, he's wrong because he's basing his opinion on outdated inaccurate information." That is one of the more forgiving examples.

Often people are just idiots that shoot from the him and don't think, at all. They believe things based on just, idiotic stuff. But if you can say, ok the guy who disagree's with me is wrong... and then stop and analyze your own beliefs, double checking them and then you can rest easy.
Now, being wrong is fine. People base their beliefs and opinions on all sorts of things. Like for example. The news media. They have heavy saturation and a lot of influence and sway. It can be pretty easy to just let down your guard and let someone else do the heavy lifting for you. Just hear something say "that sounds about right" and then move on with the new info.
And that would work if there weren't agendas and people out there deliberately trying to mislead us all. 

In the end you just have to have humility, and be prepared to re-evaluate any of your beliefs if they could be wrong. I'm sure you think there's an unspoken sub-text to all this, but well, everything means everything. I can't go putting ANY exceptions in there because nothing should be immune to critical thinking. If you feel the need to put any beliefs in a box to protect them from harm, those are probably the most likely things to be wrong.
I challenge my beliefs on an almost daily basis. I'm fairly certain I'm correct in every one of my beliefs.
But I am humble too.
For instance.
I believe.. uh, what's something that's not an opinion...
Ok I'll say I believe that there are no ghosts. I believe when people die, that's it, we're done. We are our brains. There's no spirit to float out of the body and haunt places. I have seen people present their evidence for the existence of ghosts. Some of the stories I've heard would be compelling if they could be verified, but they couldn't be. For me to believe that ghosts exist, I'd have to see some solid evidence.

Some are more willing to believe, and they can see the same evidence I dismiss as unsatisfactory, and go the other direction and well, that's fine I guess. But "you can't explain that!" doesn't mean "ghosts exist" it means I can't explain it. 
If you use logic, and be careful to avoid being persuaded by convincing fallacies you can make sure you don't believe any untrue things.

Ok this has gone on far too long. 



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His reply.



Dear Cory,

We all have a purpose in life.

Do you feel that your purpose (mission, goal, etc) is to advise others on how they should think, feel, live and breathe when you are still learning and have yet to experience so many things that life offers? It does seem hard to grasp that you are always attempting to tell me (and others) how wrong I am and how I should think and believe. As many great qualities as you have, you are not qualified to do so.

You are the only one you can change.

Life experiences qualify us. Formal Education can qualify us. Our track record also qualifies us.

When I show that I can pay my bills on time, the credit agencies see that I have been consistent and they listen to me when I say I want to borrow money for something worthwhile. However, when I have not been faithful or diligent to make the payments, they see me in another light. They say I am not qualified. Regardless of what I think, that is how they view me. I am the only one that can change this, by changing the way I do things.

It's kind of that way when we give advice, vent, preach, write (if we have an audience) or just talk to a friend. Some respect us and some don't. If I feel good about who I am and they don't, I can discount their opinion, who they are and disqualify them in my mind. I also can self reflect and decide that perhaps I am the one that needs to change the way I am going, thinking, etc. Every day, I have this option. The result is up to me where I wind up. I have my hand on the rudder of my life. I personally, have surrendered my life to Jesus Christ, and thank Him for saving me by His Blood on the Cross, forgiving my sins and directing my steps since that day in 1984 when you were just a few weeks old. That does not mean that I have total understanding of why things have happened, Cory or that I have always done right, but I know that my purpose is being fulfilled daily with His help. Even when I mess up, He is not overwhelmed by my mistakes. His plans even take this into account and are not set back due to my shortcomings.

Mankind is all of us. We all comprise it, and although it(humanity) does not define us or dictate who we are as individuals, it does historically establish what is the norm and what is acceptable. I totally understand that the age we live in is one where counterculture, extremism, hedonism, materialism, shock factor and "anything goes" seem to be in vogue. Regardless of what is said today, the majority of humanity still believes that we must produce something of worth. The essential materials each one of us have to offer are time, sweat, diligence and the desire to make things better for ourselves, our Family and others.

When you have these to invest and don't, quite honestly son, most people do not value your opinions as much. Being around other people on a daily basis is one aspect of work and life that helps to shape up to fit in and not be so confrontational (as we all can be at times). It's one thing to have your own opinions but some of them are not in line with what most people think and believe. I know that Einstein and other greats were not in the norm, but there was fruit from his work and it helped many people. He did not just write and tell others how they should live.

I know you do much more than this Cory, but I honestly do not want to have conversations that are always, seemingly trying to evoke a response out of me. My faith in God is stronger than anything you can ever say. Christ is the foundation of my life and I hope that one day you will experience His Love firsthand, rather than someone just telling you about Him as if He was millions of miles away. He is as close as our breath.

Regardless of how we differ, I always love you. It may not be shown in the way you want or deserve. I am sorry to ever let you down. One day, when you have a family of your own, you will understand how your wife (and smaller children) occupy most of your spare time and attention. That is never to say or even imply that you are less in my eyes and heart than the grand children. They are not able to sustain themselves and need us. My vocation requires so much time and yes, Karen and I like to spend time together too. That does not change the fact that I enjoy you and appreciate you and love you.

I would like to do things with you other than going to movies. I love the outdoors and treasure the camping trips we took years ago. Not sure about any supplies ( as I have none) but hope that maybe one day we could do this or something fun that does not place at odds with one another.

Thank you for writing and sharing. I hope you have a really great weekend and get a chance to do something fun!


Love, Dad



 
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My reply

Ok so I'll be writing a preface to what was the actual letter. There's always the fear of directness being mistaken for hostility.

As you may have noticed I have something resembling a minor mastery of the English language. I'm not as skilled with the quiver as I wish I was. I'll never be mistaken for Mark Twain or Shakespeare, but I do know how to get things down on paper. 

So yes, when I popped this email open to see the same familiar things, I was discouraged and I wrote harshly. I don't think that I should just whitewash those initial moments from history. Sometimes things aren't always so nice and delicately formal. I do try to present myself as something resembling civilized though.

Which raises the question. What do I do with this letter? I feel that it is deserving of a reply and I do, futilely perhaps, hope that the reply can do more good than my initial letter. A dialog was sparked, and I'd like to do something productive with the little flame.

So I'll be replying bit by bit, not to be argumentative, but because it is a good way to make sure I address every little bit. I do have to say that some of the stuff rubbed me the wrong way.

Also, if you could actually respond to things I write instead of blanket dismissal. Well, I'll get to that when the time comes.

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Ok so right from the start I may have to disagree.

"We all have a purpose in life."

I do not believe this. I object to the word "purpose". I could really go all day on this line alone. But saying something concisely is the sign of true mastery and understanding. It would be very, very easy for me to misrepresent my thoughts here.

Also I would ask, try not to knee-jerk dismiss what I'm going to say. I know you believe what you believe. I'm a bit more mailable, but I still have my convictions and standards. I just have to constantly re-evaluate mine to make sure I actually still believe what I used to believe.

Ok so, why do I object to the idea that we all have a purpose in life? Well it sort of suggests predestination. I don't believe in fate. It's very easy to look back and think that you've been walking along an ordered path. You can see the events of your life very clearly, one thing leading to another. Sort of like a timeline of past, present, and future. The past lead to the present, and similarly the future leads from the past. You can conclude that you were "supposed" to arrive at the point you're at now. that you were "supposed" to arrive at all the points in the past too. It only stands to reason that that would stretch into the future. In some sort of "I'm supposed to be standing outside of a club in Detroit at 7:26 pm on Thursday July 13, 2017", and everything between now and then will lead me to that point. The way of thinking allows you to find meaning and order in the chaos. Bad things suddenly happen in order for good things to happen, or something.

Like, yes I'm sitting here seemingly doing nothing. But hey, the path I took led me to survive. Maybe a different one would have killed me years ago. Maybe if I wasn't such a loser with the ladies I would have ended up marrying someone who wasn't right for me. Maybe if I had money it would turn me into a jerk. Maybe I need to be here for something.

To me though, everything is pretty much, well, structured randomness. There is order in that, things follow laws. If I tip over a glass of orange juice the liquid will spill out onto the table and if it gets to the edges, it'll pour, then drip onto the floor. If I try to clean it up with a paper towel, it will leave a sticky residue that will have to be cleaned in a more thorough manner. I also believe people have behavioral patterns. Like how most people tend to turn right when walking into a store. People have routines and quirks, and social etiquette. We have laws and rules to protect us from those that may not have as much empathy for others as most. We organize our things so we can find them when we need them.

We also form relationships. When you meet someone that you get along with, it can seem like you were just fated to meet. Like your life just wouldn't be complete without your "other half". I think this is all just hindsight though. We worked hard to get our civilization up and running, we're all for the most part raised in similar environments these days, to the point where it isn't TOO difficult to find at least one person you can get along with for the most part. We also sort of had this system going for a while where people would figure out what needs to be done then find people who can do that stuff.

So yeah. Uh, I don't think I have a purpose in life. I don't think anyone does.

What I'm not saying is that I believe in some sort of anarchy. I guess I'm saying I believe in free-will. Although that is another can of worms that no one can seem to agree on. I'm not even really sure what I believe on the matter. All I'm really saying is that I don't think I'm fated to do anything tomorrow. I will inevitably do SOMETHING unless I die in the next few hours, but I certainly don't believe that, well. I guess it all boils down to supernatural belief, again. I don't believe in any sort of deity so I don't believe that there's anything out there with a "plan" for any of us.

I would love to go out and make something of myself. But I don't believe that I'm fated to any more than I believe I'm fated not to. I either will or I wont based on both my actions, and a whole lot of variables and things that I can't control.

I don't believe in luck as an actual force, but it is a nice shorthand for random positive and negative outcomes that influence things.

This is pretty exhausting. I'm going to take a little break. You should take one too. I very much don't expect this to all be read in one sitting.


Ok, moving on.

"Do you feel that your purpose (mission, goal, etc) is to advise others on how they should think, feel, live and breathe when you are still learning and have yet to experience so many things that life offers?"
I don't think I have a purpose, so I can't exactly say yes to this. But advising people is something I'm good at. Whether or not I get a paycheck for it, I do feel like I am a teacher at my core. I like to learn, and I like to share what I've learned in a way that is easy to comprehend. I put a lot of effort into this stuff. I will NEVER be finished learning. There will always be more to experience than I could ever hope to get to. I don't think these things warrant dismissal. Any good teacher is also a student, first and foremost. 

"It does seem hard to grasp that you are always attempting to tell me (and others) how wrong I am and how I should think and believe. As many great qualities as you have, you are not qualified to do so."
I'm sorry that's how you perceive things. It's really quite hard to keep a cool head when insulting things like this are said. It would be interesting to see you actually respond to what I said instead of engaging on ad-hominem (personal) attacks. How can I really respond? You're saying my argument is flawed because I am incapable of making a valid argument. How do I move on from there? How am I not supposed to feel incredibly insulted?

"You are the only one you can change."
Not true. Not everyone is as stubborn, closed minded, and dismissive as you are. It may be true that I'll not be able to change your mind, but that doesn't mean I'm going to stop trying. I don't believe in fate, remember?

"Life experiences qualify us. Formal Education can qualify us. Our track record also qualifies us."
Argument from authority fallacy.

But I'll bite. My long hours of research, thinking, and learning to think qualify me. I have life experience, I have education, and I'm not sure what you mean by "track record", but when it comes to stuff like this, I'd say mine is pretty damn glorious. I am an intellectual. This is what I'm best at. I promised myself I wouldn't get hostile, but seriously. This is extremely insulting.

One last point you CAN learn a lot in a bubble. I'm not sure why you would just dismiss learning through observation. Learning through study. Learning through practice. There are so many ways to learn.

"When I show that I can pay my bills on time, the credit agencies see that I have been consistent and they listen to me when I say I want to borrow money for something worthwhile. However, when I have not been faithful or diligent to make the payments, they see me in another light. They say I am not qualified. Regardless of what I think, that is how they view me. I am the only one that can change this, by changing the way I do things."
I'm not really sure what you're getting at here.

I think you're trying to say that consistency breeds authority? Or something. But I don't think authority alone is a good determining factor. It's just a small variable. A filtration system really.

I really don't think it's an appropriate analogy. You can't compare philosophy with something like paying back debts.

"It's kind of that way when we give advice, vent, preach, write (if we have an audience) or just talk to a friend. Some respect us and some don't. If I feel good about who I am and they don't, I can discount their opinion, who they are and disqualify them in my mind. I also can self reflect and decide that perhaps I am the one that needs to change the way I am going, thinking, etc. Every day, I have this option. The result is up to me where I wind up. I have my hand on the rudder of my life. I personally, have surrendered my life to Jesus Christ, and thank Him for saving me by His Blood on the Cross, forgiving my sins and directing my steps since that day in 1984 when you were just a few weeks old. That does not mean that I have total understanding of why things have happened, Cory or that I have always done right, but I know that my purpose is being fulfilled daily with His help. Even when I mess up, He is not overwhelmed by my mistakes. His plans even take this into account and are not set back due to my shortcomings."
So is your point, that you don't respect me, and therefore my arguments are automatically invalid no matter what it is that I'm saying?

There is a fatal flaw you just highlighted. "If you don't like who someone is, then you can discount their opinion and disqualify them in your mind." To this I scream an emphatic "NO!". This is absolutely not how things should work. this is a dangerous and lazy shortcut. Giving more credibility to people who say things you like to hear, and dismissing those you can find fault with is just, a recipe for disaster.

I do agree that self reflection and course correction are important mental tools.

I'll ignore the religiousy stuff. Those are arguments for another day. I do have to say though, there is a big difference between something being true, and simply insisting that something is.

I would say there is no "why things happened" to have understanding of.

I don't fault you for the past as much as you seem to think I do. We both know you made some serious errors in judgement. Oh well. It's water under the bridge. Nothing can be done about all that stuff.

Try not to claim to have knowledge you don't actually have. If there's one thing that irritates me most about religious people in general, it's the consistent overuse of the word "know". Insisting that you know something, or that your beliefs are true, means nothing to me. You do not KNOW that your purpose is being fulfilled ect. You believe this. There's a drastic difference. It really screams of a lack of humility.

I understand that you believe you are absolutely correct, and that I'm just misguided and arrogant and possessed by multitudes of evil demons and just a vile horrible sinner who rejected the obvious truth of god. You believe I'm blind and in denial and rebellious all this other stuff. Your condescending tone is dripping with well, not contempt exactly, but just a superiority complex.

You believe that you are in possession of absolute truth, and anything that I think that doesn't match up, must be wrong. Any disparity or conflict puts you in the "correct" spot, and me in the "misguided" spot. And I'll agree that that may be true in certain instances. I will admit to being biased toward my own opinions, but only to an extent. And that is only because I think of myself as pretty good at this intellectual stuff. Put me into any other situation and you'll see how fast I'll admit I have no clue what I'm doing.

Ok another break is long past needed.


"Mankind is all of us. We all comprise it, and although it(humanity) does not define us or dictate who we are as individuals, it does historically establish what is the norm and what is acceptable. I totally understand that the age we live in is one where counterculture, extremism, hedonism, materialism, shock factor and "anything goes" seem to be in vogue. Regardless of what is said today, the majority of humanity still believes that we must produce something of worth. The essential materials each one of us have to offer are time, sweat, diligence and the desire to make things better for ourselves, our Family and others."

Mankind is all of us, I suppose that would necessarily be true if you label "us" as mankind.

I really worry about being unnecessarily critical. Or rather, about being perceived as such. You need to understand that I put a great deal of care into every word I write. (Not that I'm suggesting that you didn't.) I am fully aware that things tend to pile up and I am pretty long-winded. But I can't "pull my punches" either.

So yeah, normal is relative and who really cares about being normal anyway. It's sort of an ill defined concept. And there's really no way to say that without feeling like a nitpicker. I'm really not trying to find fault with everything here, I just don't necessarily think that being normal is the ideal, something to strive for, or even put much thought into. Next is, "acceptable". This is another loose term. Now I'm not going to go over the top and say that I don't care about whether or not something is socially acceptable. Of course I care about that. A lot more than whether or not I care about whether or not it's normal. But I accept that society can be wrong. Society can be VERY wrong. At the end of the day things boil down to what I think.


The way I see it, you have always had a pretty negative and fearful opinion of "the world". Counterculture (
a culture with values and mores that run counter to those of established society ) in and of itself isn't "bad". Extremism is something I would say you have a LOT more experience with than I do. Hedonism is also something I regret to say I have had nothing to do with. I do not believe in intrinsic good, therefore I can not believe that pleasure is the only one. Materialism, well there are two different meanings of the word, one that has to do with the acquisition of wealth as a primary life goal (I think we both accept that is not my primary Modus Operandi.) The other meaning would be the belief that all that exists is matter and energy. This is actually pretty close to what I believe. Although I'd have to do more looking into it. Shock factor is a meaningless term to me, and anything goes is a far less common mentality than you would believe. Everyone has their own personal values.

Then you basically once again say I suck for not having a job.


"When you have these to invest and don't, quite honestly son, most people do not value your opinions as much. Being around other people on a daily basis is one aspect of work and life that helps to shape up to fit in and not be so confrontational (as we all can be at times). It's one thing to have your own opinions but some of them are not in line with what most people think and believe. I know that Einstein and other greats were not in the norm, but there was fruit from his work and it helped many people. He did not just write and tell others how they should live."

   
Which of my opinions are "not in line with what "people" think and believe"? Why do they believe differently? How did they come to those conclusions? I don't concern myself with what Einstein thought about this or that. I think he was a very smart guy and he is one to look up to.

"I know you do much more than this Cory, but I honestly do not want to have conversations that are always, seemingly trying to evoke a response out of me. My faith in God is stronger than anything you can ever say. Christ is the foundation of my life and I hope that one day you will experience His Love firsthand, rather than someone just telling you about Him as if He was millions of miles away. He is as close as our breath."
You have your hopes and I have mine.

"Regardless of how we differ, I always love you. It may not be shown in the way you want or deserve. I am sorry to ever let you down. One day, when you have a family of your own, you will understand how your wife (and smaller children) occupy most of your spare time and attention. That is never to say or even imply that you are less in my eyes and heart than the grand children. They are not able to sustain themselves and need us. My vocation requires so much time and yes, Karen and I like to spend time together too. That does not change the fact that I enjoy you and appreciate you and love you."
I'm not sure how confident I am that I'll ever have a family. Of course I want one but, well the odds don't seem to be in my favor.

"I would like to do things with you other than going to movies. I love the outdoors and treasure the camping trips we took years ago. Not sure about any supplies ( as I have none) but hope that maybe one day we could do this or something fun that does not place at odds with one another."
There is a sort of mentality that the older generation has. Grandaddy especially. The sort that just doesn't deal with problems. Great rifts form and just go ignored. I would like to keep the line of communication open. You want to slam it shut.

If we're going camping it would be prudent to just get a cabin. May cost a bit more but it would save on buying and lugging around supplies. And no setting up the tent would be necessary either.

Ok I think I covered everything and then some.






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(The original letter I wrote)


So, long story short, you don't value my opinions because I don't have a job. Good to know.

I guess I should have expected that you'd have no love for philosophy, and look at thinking as a waste of time.

You seem to be associating unrelated things, and then using my lack of the first to dismiss the second.

I don't care anymore, really. 

I could pick this apart. (My beliefs aren't "in line" with what the majority thinks? Good thing being what the majority thinks is irrelevant to whether or not something is true or false. So is the age and background of the speaker.)

If you're going to be dismissive and utterly lack humility, then yeah.

There is so much to discuss but your mind is locked like a steel trap. You think this is a good thing. I wish I could explain to you why it isn't.


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His reply


Cory,

Your adversarial response was exactly what I was writing you that I have no need of or interest in engaging in. I am not afraid of you or your beliefs.

Put your mind to good use. I was not criticizing you for not having a job. Being a self proclaimed genius does not qualify you to put everyone in their place.

Not interested in further dialogue for the sake on calling it communication. I am also not interested in footing the bill for anything that would only make you more dependent on others.

Love you and wish for better life for you. That life does not have to be what i want it to be but this dialogue seems pointless.

Best,

Dad


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My replies

Well, I tried.

Have fun with your imaginary friends. 
 
 
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Ok that last reply was rude.

I know you think that all these fictional things are real. I shouldn't have lashed out like that.

It's just frustrating that you are choosing your delusions over me. And when did I ever ask you for money?

Oh, and I'm not a self proclaimed genius, I'm the real deal.
 
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Ok I'm fairly certain no one would want to read this after all. But I'll post it anyway.